'I Love You!' means 'I Feel something About You - but dont know what this is!'
I welcome your rational approach to this 'I Love You!' Quest and Question.
My understanding has become that indeed, the universe 'Is Love'; that 'God is Love' as the scriptures proclaim and that indeed 'All is Love' as the position of the 'New Agers', the 'Nirvanistic buddhists as well as the 'Jesus Freaks'.
Now the great caveat is, as you have stated - DEFINITION.
What exactly is a way this 'all permeating and omnibeing Love' can be understood beyond the 'biochemistry' of the materialistic reductionist and beyond the supernatural innuendos of the zealotry of religion-based and manifested dogma.
Because herein is the problem about this 'Feeling of Being in Love'; yet not really knowing why.
Love indeed rules the being and the existence of the cosmos - that is WHY one CAN FEEL this 'being in loveness'.
But this rulership is not biochemical in the physicality as the reductionist envisages; though it rather naturally manifests in the biochemical attraction of the physicalities as natures way to then induce sharing of body, interpersonal communications and potential procreation.
The rulership of 'Love' is the essence of space and time itself, namely the structure of anything able to participate in the cosmos' communication with itself.
So being able to scientifically define 'Love', as the alchemists culminating in Isaac Newton endeavoured to do; must so engage the structure of all physical existence itself.
Once this is done, it is found that 'Love' is the 'Life of the Cosmos' and the 'Consciousness of Spacetime' as this structured and formed universe itself.
It becomes a form of 'Selfawareness'; the Cosmos itself realising itself as what it is and ever was; yet experiencing a form of EVOLVEMENT from various vantage points of self-observation and even structural forms of self definitions.
One can then 'dress up' this 'Love' both in metaphysical symbols and archetypes enabled to weave stories and mythologies together AND one can 'describe' this 'Love' as the 'Energy' of the sciences able and subject to numerous self-transformations and changing from one form into another.
The Cosmos itself becomes the vehicle or vessel or merkabah for this originally dispersed 'consciousness of self' to restructure itself anew from its older definitions.
In the words of science this then becomes the genetic code subject to 'random mutations' in biological nomenclature or it becomes the Heisenberg Uncertainty Principle of 'Virtual Energy' interacting with the 'Real Energy'.
But the biochemist and molecular biologist should ask themselves from where the encoding and the programming for this genetic code and the 'laws of nature' actually derive from?
The astrophysicist and the cosmologist should ask themselves from where the natural laws and its proportionality constants came from and what the fire of creation is, the spark, which renders the mathematical equations so powerful and descriptive for the natural phenomena of the sciences?
The answer to those questions then is the 'Love' as the Energy of space and time preexisting their own definition in whatever terms.
And because the 'Love-Source-Energy' preexists the nature of space and time ANYTHING which is 'after the fact' found, analysed and described in terms of space and time will, be definition, fall short of giving due 'essence' to what this 'Love' was BEFORE space and time emerged from IT.
But this then allows the Holographic Universe to become the modus operandi to UNDERSTAND the 'True Love' in its selfsame essence of the spacetimelessness.
The statement: 'I Love You!' assumes a new and pertinent meaning in the form of the 'Logos' or the 'Word of God' or the 'Definition of the Source-Energy'.
'I Love You!' becomes the selfexpression of the 'creator' in the metaphysical form of the Void, being the Eternity towards ITSELF in the physical form of the Oneness of the Hologram of the Cosmos as a Holism.
This Oneness then becomes encapsulated in the Individuated Holograms as 'shards of the Creator-Creation' themselves.
The Creator proclaims to 'His' Creation: 'I Love You'; meaning 'He' Loves 'Himself' in the part who 'He' has lost in 'His' process of 'Becoming SelfAware' and 'Selfconscious' in creating 'space and time' as 'Her' and in the context of this 'self-enlightenment' and 'self-discovery'.
Then, by natural induction and implication; the Creation also should evolve to 'Love Herself' in the context of space and time to eventually mirror 'Her' Creator's exclamition of Love back to 'Himself' as 'Herself'.
All parts within, separated in space and time, so are bound by the 'natural laws' to find themselves 'quantum entangled' and so as parts of the cosmic hologram of the spacetimed completeness and unity.
So the Body of the Cosmos becomes the 'Body of the Creator', whom 'He' has lost in creating the context to become selfaware.
Once the 'Body Divine of Herness' can say: "I Love You too!" in a full understanding what those words actually mean in the original and eternal context; then ALL parts of the Cosmic Body will also become bound by the context of the spacetimes enfolding themselves in a new way of KNOWING themselves as parts of this Oneness.
Then space and time can fulfil their destined roles of providing the contexts for the 'I Love You!' statement to become the 'True Love of the Self'.
For the context of the Truth and the Falseness is of paramount importance.
Truth becomes meaningless in the absence of the falsity; just as coldness cannot exist in the absence of hotness or left requires right or up requires down for their own meaningfulness in comparative definition.
BUT the falsity can become de-energized.
A room full of light will overpower a pixel of darkness at its center - rendering it practically unnoticable; but a pixel of light will shine in a room of utter darkness.
The metaphysics then can become rigorously defined in the physics of this in the form of the modular duality coupling between supermembranes.
The falsity is encompassed in the maximisation of spacetime merkabahs of the supercluster units within the separation; but are superbrane quantum entangled with the truth of the minimisation of the spacetime merkabahs as the holographic shards or pixels of light as the basic building blocks for the cosmos itself.
And in this way, the creator can have his cosmic cake and eat it too.
Because the quantum entanglement of the 'spacetime falsity' can become as real as the spacetimelessness of the eternal void of the infinity in a reconfigured 'spacetime truthfulness'.
All the creator needs to do, is to allow some parts of the cosmic body to 'wake up' and to become aware of 'His Story' of 'Loving Her'.
Then those 'data collectors of the remembrance' will begin to 'Love Each Other' in the 'true meaning' of the 'I Love You', statement and stop to feed the falsity of the separation of one part from the other.
Of course many will fail to understand that this 'I Love You' statement then cannot mean any longer that one shard of the creator chooses to exclude any other part.
Yet the totipotent stemcells are programmed to 'show preferences', say in differntiating in their genetic programs to build a superclustered cellular heart or liver or kidney.
So the 'heartcell' might show a preference 'to couple' to another 'heartcell' and is by its own programming 'compelled' to do so.
But the ORIGIN of the 'heartcell', so defined, was as a totipotent stemcell; which could become ANY other cell in differential construction.
The deeper context defines any electron to be electromagnetically AND gravitationally attracted to ANY other proton in a 'true natural law' of sexual attractiveness between polarity charged sexual opposites.
Then the cosmos as 'Big She' asks 'herself': Am I my heart or am I my Liver?
If evolved enough in the creator's understanding then, 'Big She' might discover 'Her' Sophia and Wisdom and say: "Well I Am All of my parts and All of my parts are Me and I Love Myself as All That I Am!"
And then the creator will again say: "I Love You!" and for the first time in the cosmic linear unfoldment of space and time; the creation will be able to reply: "I Love You too and now I Know Who I Am as Your Body.
And because I Know this now; My Body is Your Body and WE have doubled Ourselves with You in Me and I in You - the quantum entanglement of the Wave in the Particle and the Body in the Mind and the Falsity in the Truth becoming the WaveBody in the ParticleWave and the TrueFalse being FalseTrue in the End of the War of the Duality".
LOVE is a omniscientific definition for the wormhole energy which created space and time as a context for the preexisting spacetimelessness of the SAME creator-creation consciousness and selfawareness to manifest itself in.
First it was undifferentiated as say a FatherMother and sexually unable to express itself.
So it created the Duality of the Father and the Mother; the former the WaveMind and the latter the ParticularBody of the Universe.
The Father remained SelfConscious in its metaphysical realm of NO spacetimematter or Heaven; whilst the Mother 'lost all consciousness' in its physical realm of the spacetimematter defined in the archetypical Earth.
Space and Time dispersed the consciousness in the Big Banged expansion with the Gravity of the situation becoming the POTENTIAL to recollect this 'lost consciousness' AS a function of spacetime itself.
So became the SPIRIT of the 'Love' the physicalisation of the metaphysical void of the eternity.
The time would come, one day, that the 'Spirit of Love' would manifest the 'Potential' of the remembrance of the self and the 'Greatest Story Ever Told' would become INITIATED from WITHIN the womb of the forgetfulness.
Then this Initiation would allow the ONENESS of the Logos to become a MANYNESS, once the times were ripened.
This time has now come.
The Universe of the WaveHeaven without and the Universe of the BodyEarth within CAN now double to allow the Heavenly Mind to Descend and the Earthly Body to Ascend in the Doubling and the Twinship of the Whole Shebang!
And then the Creator will be BOTH Within and Without the Metaphysics and the Physics in a FatherMother Being the MotherFather interacting and communicating with SonDaughters and DaughterSons as their Dragon Children, destined themselves to become FatherMothers and MotherFathers - when the times are ripe and even bigger 'Neverending Stories' are being readied to become composed and told by the Elders of Thuban!